HELLO!

Hi ! everyone........how are you? n how is your journey going on?
I hope all of you must be doing well.
I am writing here after a long period of time but connected every moment.
As we know that when there is no speech there must be vibrations..........which we transmit n no one can stop this. We always generate thoughts, it doesn't matter we speak or not but those thoughts reach their places. So we have to be very careful n control our thought process.
Keep going on with thoughts of good quality. Quantity of thoughts(frequency) should be reduced.
Practice n practice...........n you'll become master very soon.
Blessings.

WHY? WHEN? WHERE? HOW? etc.????????

We easily use this sign of question mark(?) while thinking and in situations. With people also we use it(?). Though we know how to put a full stop(.),exclamation sign(!),comma(,) and question mark(?) on PAPER but unable to apply on our thoughts. At the level of thought we only use this sign(?) and get disturbed easily too. We have to learn and practice to put a full stop on our negative and waste thoughts. Also have to learn n practice to replace them by positive n constructive ones.
WE ARE THE CREATOR OF OUR THOUGHTS N CONTROLLER TOO.

SUCCESS

When I see around, there are many who got success in a way and successful in their lives. One of my friends tried for civil services and put a lot of efforts in her preparations. For this she sacrificed all kinds of attachments and succeed.
My brother sacrificed too in a way to be successful and he is.
And there are many more similar stories.
When anyone get success and be successful, feels satisfied n happy. Also wants to share his experience n happiness with all. Everyone knows that he/she can never GIVE his/her success to others as it is a RESULT of his/her very own efforts, dedication n sacrifices.
Most important thing is they chose a path to follow n sacrificed, and if anyone needs the same he has to choose a path n keep on moving with sacrifices. They may be helpful to guide us but don't ask them to give their success.

DIFFICULT / DIFFERENT

Generally we try to prove ourselves.

Everyone try to prove that he is correct, and gives statements for the same. May be other one is also right (and must be) at his place but we never give him a chance. 

So we give them tags of BAD or DIFFICULT.
Actually no-one is difficult but everyone is DIFFERENT. Different in terms of physical features, thoughts and state of mind. Whatever state of mind and information he has, will talk to you on behalf of that. 

Therefore next time if you feel for someone that he/she is difficult, think differently.
Same rule can be applied on situations also, as no situation is difficult but different and we can face it.

CONTROLLER

I want to be happy but I can't . I have to take tension about my studies n career.....................................these are few words of a youth . What is this?
Happiness is remain with you , you can study n make your career happily. Can't you?
First of all be the controller of your mind as only your mind can tell you right n wrong .

Krishna janmashtami (Lord Krishna's birthday) is celebrated in India. Lord Krishna was PERFECT( 16 KALA Sampurn) and the sybmbol of perfection. Also when he was in India, there was golden age. Everyone in his kingdom was peaceful, happy, pure and powerful. Now the situation is just opposite so everyone is peaceless, unhappy, impure and powerless. Lord Krishna is ready to come on the earth but what will he do alone here ? He wants, his kingdom should also be ready. So we, as people of his kingdom, should do efforts to be as he wants. ARE YOU READY TO ENTER IN THE KINGDOM OF LORD KRISHNA? AS HE IS COMING IN NEAR FUTURE .

We can blame others for our disturbance and chaos in mind but everybody is doing the same , then what is the difference between we and them? People and situations are not to disturb me, likewise other materialistic things are not suppose to give me happiness. ONLY I myself can control my state of mind. If I will be able to control myself and think in the right direction then all these things and people, situations will also be my FRIENDS. Otherwise everyone is against me and my enemy. CHOICE IS YOURS.

We are running very fast after many materialistic things with this impression that they may give us happiness. Does happiness lie there? We have to stop a while and ask ourselves the same. We have developed many things for the comfort of our body which is good, but internally we became very uncomfortable. Didn't we? Now the time has come to think over it and do something. The whole society is facing the same problems, more or less. Everyone wants freedom from this inner chaos. What can we do? Give your suggestions, plz.

Happiness is not destination, it is your journey. Be happy always . There is no need to be unhappy as happiness is your birthright. You are the son of God, everyone like you is God's child. As we all are children of same father GOD who is the ocean of peace, happiness, love and prosperity, we are embodiment of the same. SO WE HAVE TO REMEMBER OUR IDENTITY. WE ARE THE CHILDREN OF GOD .............OCEAN OF ALL QUALITIES.

FESTVALS

We have number of festivals in India, RAKSHABANDHAN is one of them. Every festival is full of happiness, joy, fun and of course have a message. This one is the symbol of PURITY. As we can see this day, sisters bind a band(Rakhi) on the wrist of their brothers and brother-sister relation is itself the symbol of purity. So on this day we have to understand the right perspective of the same.
We all are brothers and sisters of a family , this family is wide enough. Our father is GOD. PURITY should be at the level of our thoughts. Our thoughts must be pure and then we will be able to see everyone as our well wisher.
I WISH ALL OF YOU A VERY HAPPY RAKSHABANDHAN.

EVER HAPPY

Life is all about what we think of it. Our thoughts lead us to our destination. We have to be very careful for the same. When we come in to contact with others we exchange our energy in the form of vibrations. Always send positive vibrations to everyone in this world, IT GIVES YOU HAPPINESS MANIFOLDS as we get what we give to others.
#Always be happy as it is your own asset, nobody can take it from you.
#Love to yourself as you are the controller of your body.
#Everyone is also a human being like you. Neither you can give happiness to anyone nor you can receive it. It will definitely flow from you if you are EVER HAPPY.

INDEPENDENCE

Happy Independence Day to all of you as today is 15th of August. This independence is outside but we are always here to talk about internal independence. We became free from British Rule on this day in 1947 but over the period of time we have become slave of our own vices .

In the beginning of this blog we have talked about how we can connect ourselves to our true nature. After that we have understood that we have powerhouse to get energy.

Now that powerhouse (GOD) is always with us to guide in the right direction. With his guidance we can free ourselves from our vices.

GOD SAYS

He guides us for better living and teaches us the ART OF LIVING.
First of all he takes a promise from us that, ''We will not give our happiness to anyone in any condition. It is our very own valuable property.''
Then he tells us about ourselves and our relation with him. He is the most powerful , ever pure, ocean of love, peace, happiness and prosperity. He is, an eternal point of light, our father.
We are his children embodiment of love, peace, happiness, prosperity, pure and powerful beings.
Each one of us is also an eternal point of light but the difference is -he never comes in the cycle of birth n death. So he is the most knowledge full and can liberate us from our vices.
We have to follow his ''SHREEMAT'' as it is the best.
He gives us the knowledge of ''WORLD DRAMA'' .
According to the drama everyone has his role to play including father . Our father also has role n time to come on the stage. This world drama repeats after a certain period of time.

BE IN SERVICE

Always be in service but what is the service and to whom you will serve?
As you have recognised the value of life and relations, everyone should get the essence from you.
If you are ever smiling and quite faced person ,others will be served by you . They will be happy to see you again and again and it will energise both of you.
You can serve the society by giving your good vibrations of peace and happiness. In this way we can say to ourselves that WE ARE ON SERVICE.
We can do it while our day to day workings also. Again it is totally an internal exercise.

PRACTICE

Practice makes man perfect but wrong practice makes man imperfect as with wrong one he can never achieve the goal he wanted. We have learned here the right way of practice and it is tried n tested.
It is better to take care of yourself instead of others. Always have remote control of your state of mind in your own hands. Otherwise you will suffer a lot.

GIVE WHATEVER YOU WANT

Everyone should give that which he wants from others as you need blessings give them blessings. We get back whatever we give intentionally or unintentionally. So why don't we give blessings to all? Blessings make you and others powerful . Anyone can give good wishes to all whether he is known to him or not. You will be free from your waste and unnecessary thoughts when you are busy in giving good wishes to all. You can do so while your workings also as it is totally an internal exercise. By doing that your account of goodness will increase drastically.
So what are waiting for? START NOW. All the best.

FRIENDSHIP DAY

Happy friendship day to all of you. As today is the first sunday of the month of August which is celebrated as FRIENDSHIP DAY. Now we all are very good friends of ourselves as well as of each other and of everyone in this world. Each one of you must have many people around you may be your family, friends, neighbours, colleagues and others.

On this special day we have to give our best wishes to everyone. May God bless everyone with happiness, love, prosperity, success, good health and peace.

'I', AS A LIFT

When 'I' am the controller of all my actions (remember actions starts with thoughts) then it lifts me UP.
This lift of mine or me makes me settled or disturbed.
It may be possible that I can go up by the right use of lift and down by the wrong use of the same. Choice is totally in my hands so now onwards I will not blame anyone for my disturbance.
My thoughts of peace, happiness and love are always with me as this is my true nature.
I will not forget my true nature.
I DON'T NEED ALL THIS FROM ANYWHERE ELSE BECAUSE
I AM A PEACEFUL,LOVING AND HAPPY BEING.

REVISION

We have to revise whatever we have understood yet.
*I will start my day with myself by giving few instructions to how to feel throughout the day.
*My happiness is my own precious property. I can never lose it at any cost and in any condition.
*I am the controller and programmer of my mind.
*I will remember the right train to pick as a right thought every time.
*I will remind myself about my true nature and instructions given in the morning during my workings also.
*I will take help from my powerhouse to get power.
*I will be thankful to everyone.

BE READY

Be ready to catch the powers from powerhouse. Keep reminding yourself about your true nature otherwise people and situations around you, will take you in grip as your thoughts.
Maintain a relation with GOD which you like most - father, teacher, friend, or anyone and believe it he will surely help you.
The best relation I felt with God is of father as he gives everything without asking for the same.
Just become his child and feel his love and care for you.

CONNECT YOURSELF

CONNECT yourself to the powerhouse to get the energy and power. After practicing your connection with yourself you can do so. As we are all powerful being our powerhouse should be SUPREME being and he is most powerful. Who is he?
It is the matter of belief, to whom you faith, decide yourself BUT believe it HE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU.
GOD's powers and blessings are ready for those who connect with him like our parents.
He is the father can give everything but don't ask him to do your duties.
He is the ocean of love, peace, happiness,purity, prosperity and power AND we are the children of God.
We have to recognise our own qualities.
OUR FATHER HAS TO PROUD ON OURSELVES.

REMAIN WITH YOU

We are always busy in our activities at different time and places as our work place, family and friends etc. Actually we play different roles to satisfy the situation and people around us.
We have to understand that, 'This is MY ROLE. I HAVE TO PERFORM WELL.'
During my performance I have to be remain with myself so that I should not involve ( ATTACH) with my role or with my co-actors.
Everyone is playing his or her role and trying to write others' script, which is wrong. One has to pay attention on his or her own script. SO now onwards write your own script with this awareness that this is a DRAMA and I am an actor.
'I AM A PEACEFUL, PURE, LOVING, HAPPY AND POWERFUL BEING ', remain with your this original SELF.

BE THANKFUL

Be thankful for everyone and you will see the magic. Those who appreciate you BE THANKFUL for them. And those who don't, be thankful for them even much MORE as they make you powerful. They taught you (indirectly) to stand ERECT.
There is no need to say, 'thanks', verbally but you can do so if possible. Again it should be your state of mind n heart that you are thankful to all. It will make you relaxed, light and energetic to perform your actions in a better way.
PAST IS PAST , I AM THANKFUL FOR EVERYONE AND READY TO ENJOY MY JOURNEY FURTHER.

MANAGE YOURSELF

Before going to manage our family or work or outside situations we have to learn to manage ourselves.
Spend sometime with YOURSELF in the morning daily. Situations are outside and my state of mind is inside. I can control myself and by doing the same I will be able to handle the situations also. I will remain happy irrespective of the circumstances and situations. I will not lose my happiness.
YOU can give this kind of instructions to your mind when you wake up and practise the same during the whole day. Remind yourself about the instructions given in the morning.
I AM A PURE, PEACEFUL, HAPPY, LOVING, AND POWERFUL BEING. These are my qualities and I'll not lose my qualities.

SELF MANAGEMENT

SELF->FAMILY->WORK
Our priority is to work hard to give happiness to our family. Therefore most of the people are doing the same which is very good. BUT the question is, IS HAPPINESS THERE ?
Everyone has very few moments to be happy so we sometimes asked about HAPPIEST MOMENT of our life. What is this? Every moment of the life MUST be happiest moment.
We work hard and spend most of the time at our work.
Lesser time spend with family.
LEAST or NO time for our SELF.
How should we manage our SELF to perform our all roles in a better way?

MY EXPERIENCES

My experiences with life are different and gave me really such a lovely view to see LIFE as it is. Life is beautiful as it is a gift of GOD and full of PRESENTS. Every moment of life is a present therefore we call the very moment as PRESENT not past or future BUT we don't live in present so unable to enjoy the same. We are always busy in planning of not only future but past also. Yes, we do planning of our past also. Don't we?
I am not saying that planning is bad but TO LOSE PRESENT is not in our favour. Try to be in present & live it fully.

OUR RELATIONS

Our relations are also getting affected by our pressures and tensions. We expect from others to behave very well and then we will have good relations with them which is totally wrong.
What does relation mean? Relation is what we think about & do with others instead of what they think & do with us. They have their own perspective to see the things.
We have to concentrate on our own performance as we are all actors in this world drama. This wonderful drama is full of everything. Everybody is playing his or her role otherwise he or she is also a pure being like me.
We have to see everyone as a pure entity and give our best wishes. When we start looking like this our relations with everyone will be improved automatically.
ALWAYS SEE YOURSELF AND OTHERS ON SAME PLATFORM AS WE ARE ALL CHILDREN OF GOD.

KARMIC ACCOUNTS

We meet and interact with many people during our journey. Some of them behave very well and others accordingly. We are unable to understand that, why do we have very good relations with some of them and not with others? Is it possible that I'll have good relations with everyone?
First of all we have to understand that this difference is just because of our KARMIC ACCOUNTS we have with others. When we started our journey ,we started our account also.
In the beginning we (all) were pure but during this journey we have made so much account with others that even we don't know. So what to do now?
Now we have to return to our purity and try to settle the account. We have to remember our true or basic nature always. We are peaceful, happy, loving, pure and powerful basically.
If someone behaves badly with you, you must say to yourself , 'I am settling my acct with him.'
DO NOT LOSE YOUR QUALITY. SETTLE YOUR ACCOUNT.

YOUR POWERS

You will become complete with all the virtues in the future anyway, but now, you have to become complete with all the powers. The more you become complete with all the powers, the more you will become complete with all the virtues. In which powers do you need to have a balance? One is the power of LOVE, second is the power of RELATIONSHIPS, third is the power of COOPERATION, & fourth is the power of TOLERANCE. All these four powers should be equal.

LIFE

1-LIFE GOES SLOWLY, WE REALISE QUICKLY.
NOTHING COMES SIMPLY, EVERYONE TAKES SURELY.
2-LIFE BECOMES SO DIFFICULT, WHEN WE FACE INSULT.
IT LOOKS NICE, WHEN WE REALISE.
IT IS LIKE A COIN, HAVING TWO SIDES WITHIN.
3-LIFE IS LOVED BY EVERYONE, DEATH IS LOVED BY NONE.
BE ALIVE N POSITIVE, INSTEAD OF DEAD N NEGATIVE.
4-LIFE IS COLORFUL, MAY BE BRIGHT OR DULL.
PEOPLE TAKE IT DIFFERENTLY, ALTHOUGH IT IS LOVELY.
IT IS UP TO AN INDIVIDUAL, HOW CAN HE MAKE IT REAL?
5-WHAT IS LIFE? WHO CAN GUESS?
IT IS A GAMBLE, WHICH IS HARMLESS.
I CAN UNDERSTAND BUT SPEAK LESS.
PEOPLE GET CONFUSED BY MY DRESS.
I HAVE MIND N HEART TOO, THEY NEVER ADDRESS.

ZINDAGI TERE HAZAR RANG

ज़िन्दगी तेरे हज़ार रंग, हर रंग जुदा
तेरे हर रंग हर अदा पे हम फ़िदा
जो तू कहे कि दिन तो दिन
जो तू कहे कि रात तो रात
तेरी बात कुछ और ही बात
तू साथ है, अज़ीज़ हमें है तेरा साथ
जो दे ठोकरें तो दे हौँसला भी
जो दे मुश्किलें तो दे फैसला भी
कि कैसे करे ? निबाह आंधी के साथ
कि कैसे करे? सामना तूफां के साथ
तुझे पाना है मुश्किल तो खोना भी
तू तो है कभी बेवफा, कभी वफ़ा किसी की

THIS IS YOUR JOURNEY.

Enjoy your journey of life and like you everyone has his own journey. There is no competition between any two. As no one is responsible for your state of mind, similarly you are not responsible for the other's state of mind. Take care of yourself and then be helpful to others.

PRACTISE N PRACTISE

If we practise n practise we will be successful surely. As we were on the wrong practise we were disturbed and now we have right direction to practise, we can change our lifestyle. Cann't we? Start from right here , right now . Don't postpone your initiative, it is in your favour. At least try once or experiment it. If you will not be satisfied with the same, you can go back to your old system. This technique of mind management is totally internal.

SANSKARS

As 'I' am the controller i.e. an energy and my body is my costume, so 'I' am one and costumes are many. 'I' acquired many costumes during my journey and due to these costumes I have got many impressions of different shades. To put on a costume is known as birth of mine, so I have many births including the present one. Last births' impressions and this birth's are my sanskars. Anyone can change his bad sanskars (habits) in to good by practice. Again one has to do work on himself only but not on others.

INTELLECT

INTELLECT tells us about good or bad , right or wrong BUT it has its own limits. We can not rely on our intellect as it guides us up to some extent. Although it has its limits even then we have to use it properly. Never try to prove that you are right always as I told you that everyone has this faculty with him, so other person may be right in his perspective. We can see only the one side of a coin at a time. Similarly we can see things and situations from one side only , other side of the same must be hidden and we always try to prove ourselves right which gives us tension. Everyone has this problem means everyone is trying to prove himself right and wrong to the others. Now you can understand that your intellect may cheat you.

MIND

Mind is just like a naughty child, always busy in different activities. When interrupted , feels very bad but needs to check his activities.
Mind's work is to generate thoughts but what are the sources of thoughts? First of all the source of our thoughts is our BELIEF SYSTEM, second is INFORMATION received and the third one is OUR PAST EXPERIENCES. Whenever we get something, firstly we match the same with our belief system. We reject many things just because they do not match with our beliefs. We not even try them or experiment them . Secondly we get an idea about anything on the behalf of information received and label the things without coming in to contact. As a result we underestimate many things. Thirdly we take help of our past experiences without thinking that everything is changing. Change is in nature so, how will it be possible to rely on our past? As past is past , it can not be applied on present or future.

FACULTIES OF 'I'

There are three faculties of 'I'- MIND, INTELLECT & SANSKARS. Mind has to generate thoughts whether we are aware of that or not. Intellect visualises and tells us GOOD OR BAD about the same. Whatever we do repeatedly is our sanskar.As far as sanskars are concerned these are of many types as acquired in last births, of this birth and if practice we can change the bad in to good sanskars.

WHO AM I?

Am I a body only? OR a POWER who controls MY body ? Actually we never say 'I, THE BODY'. Instead we say 'MY BODY', means 'I' must be different from 'my body' and should be the controller of the same. IT must be an energy which transform in to various actions performed through my body. YES, I AM AN ENERGY , CAN NEITHER BE CREATED NOR CAN BE DESTROYED. I AM ETERNAL . SO, NOBODY CAN EVEN TOUCH ME. This body of mine is just like my dress or costume. If somebody says anything about my dress, I don't mind. For me, it is more important that I should save myself to do more constructive works instead of going in to waste thoughts. Remember , to choose the right way of doing anything is in your own hands. Be careful and BE with yourself to get the power. Nobody can empower YOU except yourself. HELP YOURSELF. An old saying is 'GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES'.

REALISATION OF EVERYTHING

Comes from one thing i.e. realisation of myself. Everyone is trying to reach somewhere but unable to understand or reach to 'I'. Though they have this question in their minds but never try to find out the answer for the same. If anyone will realise his or her SELF ,it will be easy to realise everything. It was a question in my mind since my childhood. Whenever I was in front of the mirror specially, used to ask myself,' WHO AM I ?' Answers were there but not appropriate.

PERSONALITY

Our collective habits make our personality. With this personality we move in the society and interact with everyone. Again we can recall that our personality development starts with our thoughts. Our thoughts, feelings and attitude, together in the form of VIBRATIONS, reaches first to anyone. Others respond accordingly and we have relations good or bad.

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

As we are in trouble then who is responsible for the same? We have to take responsibility. We have to STOP BLAME GAME, nobody can disturb me. Earlier It was easy FOR ME to blame others BUT when I got the realisation, it becomes so easy to take it on myself. Now ball is in my court so nobody can make me disturbed. People or situations play a role but the most important role is of ourselves. We have to see, what are we doing with them? We cann't change them but we feel whatever we like to. IF we try to change a little bit of our view we will be able to see the things in a right perspective. First of all RESPONSIBILITY is of mine. Second is I AM the creator of my emotions. Third is ,if I am the creator then I will be the destroyer also. So I CAN finish all waste thoughts of mine in JUST A SECOND. FINISH the waste and CREATE the useful thoughts.

ACTIONS & HABITS

We have talked about THOUGHTS,FEELINGS & ATTITUDE.Our thoughts followed by feelings and attitude results in our actions. Since our actions do not match with our thoughts therefore we are in trouble. Everybody knows right or wrong but unable to act accordingly.The Choice of actions is different from our thoughts.We have practiced it for years and even now we are following the same in the name of culture,system etc.Think a while,what are we doing? we are playing with our lives, most prestigious and valuable thing of ourselves. OUR repeated actions become our HABITS. We simply say 'IT IS MY HABIT', never try to change.Instead we say 'I CAN'T CHANGE MY HABITS'.Now everyone is going through the same situation,then who'll help you? Nobody.So if you are interested to help yourself you'll get success just in ONE THOUGHT.Actually you are ONE THOUGHT AWAY from your success. Decide first that you are in trouble and you have to come out from the same.

FEELINGS AND ATTITUDE

Feeling does not come from outside. YOU can get some actions or reactions from others and outside situations BUT CAN FEEL WHATEVER YOU LIKE TO. For example someone wants to disturb you and says anything which is not true, what will you do? WILL YOU START FEELING BAD? WAIT, you have promised yourself that you'll not give your happiness n peace(of mind) to anybody in any condition i.e. the THOUGHT and NOW YOU can go to next step and feel , HOW ARE YOU FEELING NOW? GOOD. YOUR attitude will also become good and you'll be able to avoid the situation at that moment and your vibrations will definitely work.

POWER OF THOUGHT

You have a thought and you become stable. Within a second's thought, you can stabilise yourself either here or there. Thoughts are the LIFT to take you up or down. Through thought you can reach the most elevated, highest destination. Do you have the practice of this experience? YOU are the master to use the power of thought.Do you experience such mastery? Do you experience yourself to be the creator who creates thoughts? Are you influenced by the creation(your)? SELF COUNSELLING may help you in the beginning as you have number of thoughts. Start your day with conversation with yourself. When you wake up in the morning,SAY good morning to yourself n just try to talk with yourself and give your mind few instructions for the whole day about how'll you feel throughout day. You'll not try to change others and situations but yourself. THROUGHOUT the day whenever you get time remind yourself about the instructions given in the morning. At night when you go to bed check yourself whether you followed the instrctions or not. 'This day is over, I did my job as I could do it.'Today's account is clear so I am going to sleep. SAY good night to yourself.Do experiment for one day and if you like to continue it is in your favour.

THOUGHTS

Everyone has thoughts n thoughts. No matter where we are, how we are but we are always with lots of thoughts in our mind. There are number of thoughts and we have to identify that whether we have constructive thoughts, waste thoughts , positive or negative thoughts. By getting knowledge about our thoughts we come to the result that we are busy with unnecessary thoughts most of the time. As we give food to our body for nourishment, our mind needs nourishment too and nutritious food for mind is THOUGHTS OF BEST QUALITY. We have quantity of thoughts, that should be reduced and have to pay attention on quality of thoughts.

PICK UP THE RIGHT TRAIN.

THOUGHT------FEELING-----ATTITUDE------ACTION-----HABIT----PERSONALITY------DESTINY.
Every thought is followed by a feeling which makes our attitude. These three things are always inside our mind nobody can see this. But actions performed are infront of others. Repeated actions become our habits and collection of our habits make our personality. With this personality we move in the society and interact with our relatives, friends, and others. We then throw energy of ourselves on others which comes back as our destiny. To have a better destiny you have to pick up the right train of right thoughts.

HOW ARE YOU FEELING?

The most imortant thing is our feelings . No doubt, but do yo know what is the exact method to feel? Actually we have to go one step beore feeling as THOUGHT comes earliar than a feeling. Whatever we feel is followed by our thought created by ourself at that very moment. Again you can see it is in our hand as we are creator of our own thoughts . No matter how bad or difficult is the situation or people are infront of you , even then you can create thoughts of your own choice. Next time when you'll feel bad check your thought . Always repeat inside that I'll not give my happiness .

PEACE & HAPPINESS

As I have mentioned earlier that peace & happiness are our birth right , only we can control our state of mind. Situations & people can never be controlled but if we want to do the same we'll definitely get disturbed. As a result we lose our peace n happiness. We have to do one promise with ourselves , everyone can do , and it will give you strength..............I'LL NOT LOSE MY HAPPINESS IN ANY CONDITION , AT ANY COST AND IT IS MY MOST VALUABLE ASSET , I WILL NOT GIVE IT TO ANYBODY. You will see the difference yourself , by repeating these words internally you will feel more energised and then people & situations around you are may be the same but NOW you are changed . Practice it while your workings also, it is internal. GOOD to effort.

OUR TRUE NATURE

Do you know your true nature? Who are you ACTUALLY? As we don't know ourselves and our true nature therefore we always have pressures n tensions. If we are able to get the answers of our questions we'll definitely be free from our problems.

zindagi ek paheli ya kuchh aur ?

ज़िन्दगी हमेशा नये नये रंग दिखाती है.
जब भी चाहे समझना इसे और भी उलझाती है.
ये कोई पहेली है या कुछ और ?
क्यूँ समझ नहीं आती है ?

HOW CAN WE CHANGE?

We are changing accordingly otherwise. I mean to say that we don't have control on ourselves. As situations and people come infront of us we simply react BUT don't know, what is happening actually? WHAT IS THE MECHANISM BEHIND & MOST IMPORTANT IT CAN BE CONTROLLED THEN CHANGED. This life is most important as it is a gift from GOD. If we are not satisfied with our life means something is going wrong. We have to stop and find the way of right kind of living.
I personally feel that neither situations nor people are going to change, they are not in our control. MY state of mind can be controlled and changed by me because it is in my hand.
My mind is my property, BUT till the moment I don't decide the same, others are allowed to get the RIGHT on me. Obviously it is very dangerous.
When you are in danger what'll you do? You have to do something. Take a decision and responsibility on yourself that I CAN DO IT AS I AM THE CREATOR OF MY DESTINY.

WHY DO WE CHANGE ?

Good question. Many of you may ask this but think a while if you are not going to change before time then time will definitely change you. Won't it? SO it is in our favour that we try n understand the right or true purpose of our life. LIFE is much more precious than tensions n pressures. It is more about happiness and peace . Isn't it? I agree with you that everyone needs but doesn't know HOW? Actually we are one thought away from our destination.

INTRODUCTION

Hi, this is GEETA your friend who will help you to GROOM your personality. Grooming means not only externally but most important internally. There are many people who are helping you to groom yourself externally but I am here to share with you the importance of internal beauty. IT is always with you but you are unable to even identify . Your mind is always busy with lots of thoughts. Before you know anyone else you have to know yourself. You are the best friend of yourself . If not then you have to be. You may be male or female, student or professional, of any age or whosoever, everyone has certain pressures or tensions, can learn how to handle all this. Be with me we will together explore the heights of your inner strength and this will surely make you more confident than ever before.

The idea of this blog came in to my mind as I was also FACING same kind of problems in my life and personality earlier but when I got the way to solve them and also helping others for the same, I am here in front of you. I hope it will really work.

Peace, Happiness, Love , these are natural qualities in a human being and with these he or she can be powerful which is his or her birth right. Now we are looking out for the same . We expect from others that they should give us happiness , love and peace. Do you know anyone can give only the same which is in abundance with him or her ? Do they have all this which we are expecting from them ? If we are suffering from any disease and instead of going to a doctor we go to the patients of the same disease, then what will happen?

I myself found that they could not help me as everyone was suffering from the same problems.