We can blame others for our disturbance and chaos in mind but everybody is doing the same , then what is the difference between we and them? People and situations are not to disturb me, likewise other materialistic things are not suppose to give me happiness. ONLY I myself can control my state of mind. If I will be able to control myself and think in the right direction then all these things and people, situations will also be my FRIENDS. Otherwise everyone is against me and my enemy. CHOICE IS YOURS.