TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

As we are in trouble then who is responsible for the same? We have to take responsibility. We have to STOP BLAME GAME, nobody can disturb me. Earlier It was easy FOR ME to blame others BUT when I got the realisation, it becomes so easy to take it on myself. Now ball is in my court so nobody can make me disturbed. People or situations play a role but the most important role is of ourselves. We have to see, what are we doing with them? We cann't change them but we feel whatever we like to. IF we try to change a little bit of our view we will be able to see the things in a right perspective. First of all RESPONSIBILITY is of mine. Second is I AM the creator of my emotions. Third is ,if I am the creator then I will be the destroyer also. So I CAN finish all waste thoughts of mine in JUST A SECOND. FINISH the waste and CREATE the useful thoughts.

ACTIONS & HABITS

We have talked about THOUGHTS,FEELINGS & ATTITUDE.Our thoughts followed by feelings and attitude results in our actions. Since our actions do not match with our thoughts therefore we are in trouble. Everybody knows right or wrong but unable to act accordingly.The Choice of actions is different from our thoughts.We have practiced it for years and even now we are following the same in the name of culture,system etc.Think a while,what are we doing? we are playing with our lives, most prestigious and valuable thing of ourselves. OUR repeated actions become our HABITS. We simply say 'IT IS MY HABIT', never try to change.Instead we say 'I CAN'T CHANGE MY HABITS'.Now everyone is going through the same situation,then who'll help you? Nobody.So if you are interested to help yourself you'll get success just in ONE THOUGHT.Actually you are ONE THOUGHT AWAY from your success. Decide first that you are in trouble and you have to come out from the same.

FEELINGS AND ATTITUDE

Feeling does not come from outside. YOU can get some actions or reactions from others and outside situations BUT CAN FEEL WHATEVER YOU LIKE TO. For example someone wants to disturb you and says anything which is not true, what will you do? WILL YOU START FEELING BAD? WAIT, you have promised yourself that you'll not give your happiness n peace(of mind) to anybody in any condition i.e. the THOUGHT and NOW YOU can go to next step and feel , HOW ARE YOU FEELING NOW? GOOD. YOUR attitude will also become good and you'll be able to avoid the situation at that moment and your vibrations will definitely work.

POWER OF THOUGHT

You have a thought and you become stable. Within a second's thought, you can stabilise yourself either here or there. Thoughts are the LIFT to take you up or down. Through thought you can reach the most elevated, highest destination. Do you have the practice of this experience? YOU are the master to use the power of thought.Do you experience such mastery? Do you experience yourself to be the creator who creates thoughts? Are you influenced by the creation(your)? SELF COUNSELLING may help you in the beginning as you have number of thoughts. Start your day with conversation with yourself. When you wake up in the morning,SAY good morning to yourself n just try to talk with yourself and give your mind few instructions for the whole day about how'll you feel throughout day. You'll not try to change others and situations but yourself. THROUGHOUT the day whenever you get time remind yourself about the instructions given in the morning. At night when you go to bed check yourself whether you followed the instrctions or not. 'This day is over, I did my job as I could do it.'Today's account is clear so I am going to sleep. SAY good night to yourself.Do experiment for one day and if you like to continue it is in your favour.

THOUGHTS

Everyone has thoughts n thoughts. No matter where we are, how we are but we are always with lots of thoughts in our mind. There are number of thoughts and we have to identify that whether we have constructive thoughts, waste thoughts , positive or negative thoughts. By getting knowledge about our thoughts we come to the result that we are busy with unnecessary thoughts most of the time. As we give food to our body for nourishment, our mind needs nourishment too and nutritious food for mind is THOUGHTS OF BEST QUALITY. We have quantity of thoughts, that should be reduced and have to pay attention on quality of thoughts.

PICK UP THE RIGHT TRAIN.

THOUGHT------FEELING-----ATTITUDE------ACTION-----HABIT----PERSONALITY------DESTINY.
Every thought is followed by a feeling which makes our attitude. These three things are always inside our mind nobody can see this. But actions performed are infront of others. Repeated actions become our habits and collection of our habits make our personality. With this personality we move in the society and interact with our relatives, friends, and others. We then throw energy of ourselves on others which comes back as our destiny. To have a better destiny you have to pick up the right train of right thoughts.

HOW ARE YOU FEELING?

The most imortant thing is our feelings . No doubt, but do yo know what is the exact method to feel? Actually we have to go one step beore feeling as THOUGHT comes earliar than a feeling. Whatever we feel is followed by our thought created by ourself at that very moment. Again you can see it is in our hand as we are creator of our own thoughts . No matter how bad or difficult is the situation or people are infront of you , even then you can create thoughts of your own choice. Next time when you'll feel bad check your thought . Always repeat inside that I'll not give my happiness .

PEACE & HAPPINESS

As I have mentioned earlier that peace & happiness are our birth right , only we can control our state of mind. Situations & people can never be controlled but if we want to do the same we'll definitely get disturbed. As a result we lose our peace n happiness. We have to do one promise with ourselves , everyone can do , and it will give you strength..............I'LL NOT LOSE MY HAPPINESS IN ANY CONDITION , AT ANY COST AND IT IS MY MOST VALUABLE ASSET , I WILL NOT GIVE IT TO ANYBODY. You will see the difference yourself , by repeating these words internally you will feel more energised and then people & situations around you are may be the same but NOW you are changed . Practice it while your workings also, it is internal. GOOD to effort.

OUR TRUE NATURE

Do you know your true nature? Who are you ACTUALLY? As we don't know ourselves and our true nature therefore we always have pressures n tensions. If we are able to get the answers of our questions we'll definitely be free from our problems.

zindagi ek paheli ya kuchh aur ?

ज़िन्दगी हमेशा नये नये रंग दिखाती है.
जब भी चाहे समझना इसे और भी उलझाती है.
ये कोई पहेली है या कुछ और ?
क्यूँ समझ नहीं आती है ?

HOW CAN WE CHANGE?

We are changing accordingly otherwise. I mean to say that we don't have control on ourselves. As situations and people come infront of us we simply react BUT don't know, what is happening actually? WHAT IS THE MECHANISM BEHIND & MOST IMPORTANT IT CAN BE CONTROLLED THEN CHANGED. This life is most important as it is a gift from GOD. If we are not satisfied with our life means something is going wrong. We have to stop and find the way of right kind of living.
I personally feel that neither situations nor people are going to change, they are not in our control. MY state of mind can be controlled and changed by me because it is in my hand.
My mind is my property, BUT till the moment I don't decide the same, others are allowed to get the RIGHT on me. Obviously it is very dangerous.
When you are in danger what'll you do? You have to do something. Take a decision and responsibility on yourself that I CAN DO IT AS I AM THE CREATOR OF MY DESTINY.

WHY DO WE CHANGE ?

Good question. Many of you may ask this but think a while if you are not going to change before time then time will definitely change you. Won't it? SO it is in our favour that we try n understand the right or true purpose of our life. LIFE is much more precious than tensions n pressures. It is more about happiness and peace . Isn't it? I agree with you that everyone needs but doesn't know HOW? Actually we are one thought away from our destination.

INTRODUCTION

Hi, this is GEETA your friend who will help you to GROOM your personality. Grooming means not only externally but most important internally. There are many people who are helping you to groom yourself externally but I am here to share with you the importance of internal beauty. IT is always with you but you are unable to even identify . Your mind is always busy with lots of thoughts. Before you know anyone else you have to know yourself. You are the best friend of yourself . If not then you have to be. You may be male or female, student or professional, of any age or whosoever, everyone has certain pressures or tensions, can learn how to handle all this. Be with me we will together explore the heights of your inner strength and this will surely make you more confident than ever before.

The idea of this blog came in to my mind as I was also FACING same kind of problems in my life and personality earlier but when I got the way to solve them and also helping others for the same, I am here in front of you. I hope it will really work.

Peace, Happiness, Love , these are natural qualities in a human being and with these he or she can be powerful which is his or her birth right. Now we are looking out for the same . We expect from others that they should give us happiness , love and peace. Do you know anyone can give only the same which is in abundance with him or her ? Do they have all this which we are expecting from them ? If we are suffering from any disease and instead of going to a doctor we go to the patients of the same disease, then what will happen?

I myself found that they could not help me as everyone was suffering from the same problems.